Putting the partner within reach: a dyadic perspective on felt security in close relationships.
Putting the partner within reach: a dyadic perspective on felt security in close relationships.
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让伴侣触手可及：从二元视角看待亲密关系中的安全感。
DOI：
10.1037/0022-3514.88.2.327
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发表时间：
2005
影响因子：
7.6
通讯作者：
Griffin,DaleW
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作者：
Murray,SandraL;Rose,Paul;Holmes,JohnG;Derrick,Jaye;Podchaski,EricJ;Bellavia,Gina;Griffin,DaleW
作者认为，对伴侣的积极关注和关心感到不安全感源于一种特殊的二元认知——认为伴侣超出自己的范围。约会情侣的横断面样本显示，自尊心低的人感觉自己不如伴侣，而这种相对自卑的感觉会破坏伴侣的安全感。三项实验通过指出自我的优势或伴侣的缺陷来检验减少这种感知差异的后果。自尊心低但不高的参与者对自己的新优势或伴侣的缺点做出反应，报告称，他们对特定伴侣的积极关注和承诺感到更加安全，并对自己的人际价值产生了更积极、普遍的感受。因此，让伴侣更多地处于低自尊者的心理控制范围内，可以有效地增加伴侣的安全感。（PsycInfo 数据库记录 (c) 2023 APA，保留所有权利）
The authors argue that felt insecurity in a partner's positive regard and caring stems from a specifically dyadic perception--the perception that a partner is out of one's league. A cross-sectional sample of dating couples revealed that people with low self-esteem feel inferior to their partner and that such feelings of relative inferiority undermine felt security in the partner's regard. Three experiments examined the consequences of reducing such perceived discrepancies by pointing to either strengths in the self or flaws in the partner. Low, but not high, self-esteem participants reacted to new strengths in the self or faults in the partner by reporting greater felt security in their specific partner's positive regard and commitment and more positive, general feelings about their own interpersonal worth. Thus, putting the partner more within the psychological grasp of low self-esteem people may effectively increase felt security in the partner's regard.(PsycInfo Database Record (c) 2023 APA, all rights reserved)