Conflict with Friends, Relationship Blindness, and the Pathway to Adult Disagreeableness.
Conflict with Friends, Relationship Blindness, and the Pathway to Adult Disagreeableness.
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与朋友的冲突、关系盲目性以及导致成人不愉快的途径。
DOI：
10.1016/j.paid.2015.01.023
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发表时间：
2015
影响因子：
4.3
通讯作者：
Hessel,ElendaT
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作者：
Hafen,ChristopherA;Allen,JosephP;Schad,MeganM;Hessel,ElendaT
对青少年来说，与朋友和恋人建立和维持关系的能力是一项主要的发展任务。不讨人喜欢的年轻人很可能会在这项任务上苦苦挣扎，但人们对他们如何在青春期到成年期间保持自己的反对风格知之甚少。目前的这项研究考察了164名青少年的不同样本中不愉快的长期影响，这些样本在10年期间与他们的朋友和恋人一起反复进行评估。在14岁和15岁时，通过与朋友的观察来评估他们是否不随和。然后，研究人员考察了不愉快对16岁时与朋友的未来关系质量和21岁时浪漫关系的预测作用。结果表明，尽管不讨人喜欢的年轻人不会报告任何感情斗争，但他们的朋友和恋人都认为他们的关系质量不高。研究结果表明，不愉快的青少年通过一种关系失明的机制来维持他们的对立风格的发展过程，因为他们根本看不到朋友和伴侣清楚地感知到的关系问题。
The ability to form and maintain relationships with friends and romantic partners is a major developmental task for adolescents. Disagreeable youth are likely to struggle with this task, yet little is known about how they maintain their oppositional style from adolescence to adulthood. The current study examines the long-term implications of disagreeableness in a diverse sample of 164 adolescents assessed repeatedly across a 10-year period along with their friends and romantic partners. Disagreeableness at age 14 and 15 was assessed in observation with friends. Disagreeableness was then examined as a predictor of both future relationship quality with friends at age 16 and romantic relationships at age 21. The results indicate that although disagreeable youth do not report any relationship struggles, both their friends and romantic partners see their relationships as being low in quality. Findings suggest a developmental process by which disagreeable adolescents maintain their oppositional style through a mechanism of relationship blindness, as they simply are unable to see the relationship issues that their friends and partners clearly perceive.