Generational boundary dissolution between mothers and their preschool children: a relationship systems approach.
Generational boundary dissolution between mothers and their preschool children: a relationship systems approach.
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母亲与其学龄前儿童之间代际界限的消解：关系系统方法。
DOI：
10.1111/j.1467-8624.1985.tb00108.x
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发表时间：
1985
影响因子：
4.6
通讯作者：
M. J. Ward
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作者：
L. Sroufe;D. Jacobvitz;S. Mangelsdorf;E. DeAngelo;M. J. Ward
关系系统的一个特定的角度作为本研究的基础。这一观点中的假设包括关系的定性方面随时间的推移是稳定的，并且在同一系统内的关系之间存在合法关系。以前，一个概念的诱人的母亲和幼儿的关系，最初得到验证。从围绕这一概念的理论中，人们设想了这种模式的后来形式，并提出了关于互补母女关系的假设。在目前的研究中，我们首先表明，“诱惑力”的模式是稳定的，虽然在24到42个月之间发生了变化。第二，没有发现相同的母亲对男性或女性兄弟姐妹具有诱惑力。第三，表现出诱惑模式的母亲（几乎总是和男孩在一起），正如预测的那样，以一种特殊的方式（“嘲笑”）对她们的女儿充满敌意。在42个月时使用的其他2个量表（“无反应的亲密关系”和“代际界限”）在目标母亲-男性配对中升高，而在母亲-女儿配对中没有升高。事实上，那些对儿子有诱惑力的母亲在与女儿相处时的亲密程度明显低于对照组的母亲。有人建议，母亲的兄弟姐妹之间的关系是连贯的，但不同的，这些连接来自母亲的关系历史的整体。
A particular perspective on relationship systems served as the basis for this research. Postulates within this perspective include qualitative aspects of relationships are stable over time, and there are lawful relations among relationships within the same system. Previously, a concept of seductive mother-toddler relationships was initially validated. From the theory surrounding this concept, later forms of this pattern were conceived, and a hypothesis concerning complementary mother-daughter relationships was formulated. In the present research we showed first that the pattern of "seductiveness" was stable, though transformed, from 24 to 42 months. Second, the same mothers were not found to be seductive with male or female siblings. Third, mothers who showed the seductive pattern (almost always with boys) were, as predicted, hostile toward their daughters in a particular way ("derision"). 2 other scales used at 42 months ("nonresponsive intimacy" and "generational boundaries") were elevated for target mother-male dyads and not for mother-daughter pairs. In fact, mothers who were seductive with sons were rated significantly lower on the intimacy scale when seen with daughters than were control mothers. It is suggested that maternal relationships across siblings are coherent, however distinct, and that these connections derive from the totality of the mother's relationship history.