Outcasts in a white-lie society: the enigmatic worlds of people with negative self-conceptions.
Outcasts in a white-lie society: the enigmatic worlds of people with negative self-conceptions.
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善意谎言社会中的被排斥者：具有消极自我概念的人们的神秘世界。
DOI：
10.1037//0022-3514.62.4.618
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发表时间：
1992
影响因子：
7.6
通讯作者：
McNulty,SE
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作者：
SwannJr,WB;Stein-Seroussi,A;McNulty,SE
尽管有消极自我观点的人希望在某种程度上被喜欢，但他们会反复做出疏远伴侣的行为。为什么？为什么？一种可能性是，这些人所处的社会环境使他们对自己做错了什么几乎没有什么洞察力。虽然那些有消极自我观点的人会引起不好的反应，但他们并不欣赏这个事实，因为他们的互动伙伴在善意的话语后面隐藏了他们的厌恶。可以肯定的是，有消极自我观点的人的互动伙伴倾向于通过非语言方式表达他们的蔑视。然而，这些消极的非语言信息被证明是没有信息的，因为有消极自我观点的人忽略了它们。这些数据意味着，有消极自我观点的人可能生活在一个社会世界里，在这个世界里，他们被剥夺了纠正反馈，而纠正反馈可以让他们改善自己。（PsycINFO数据库记录（c）2016阿帕，保留所有权利）
Although people with negative self-views want to be liked at some level, they repeatedly enact behaviors that alienate their relationship partners. Why? One possibility is that such persons reside in social environments that offer them little insight into what they are doing wrong. Although persons who had negative self-views elicited unfavorable reactions, they did not appreciate this fact because their interaction partners concealed their aversion behind a facade of kind words. To be sure, the interaction partners of people with negative self-views tended to leak their disdain nonverbally. These negative nonverbal messages proved to be uninformative, however, because people with negative self-views overlooked them. These data imply that people with negative self-views may live in social worlds in which they are deprived of corrective feedback that could allow them to improve themselves.(PsycINFO Database Record (c) 2016 APA, all rights reserved)