Mentoring: Giving Forward While Giving Back.
Mentoring: Giving Forward While Giving Back.
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指导：在回馈的同时给予前行。
DOI：
10.1007/s13187-018-1328-6
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2018
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Sadler,GeorgiaRobins
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作者：
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没有人能独自到达那里。实际上，每个人都得到了正式或非正式的指导。有些导师是杰出的，有些是优秀的，有些是糟糕的，还有一些是彻底摧毁了灵魂和精神的。在与导师互动的过程中，我们获得了所有积极和消极的个人经验，对于什么是真正伟大的导师，以及如何效仿他们的一些想法，我们就很容易开始形成自己的个人观点。我们首先确定导师的最佳风格和特征，并将它们添加到我们欣赏其他导师的地方。当我们接受导师的形式和实质时，我们开始发展我们自己的指导风格。通过尝试和错误，我们测试、调整、实践和使用我们获得的指导技能。最终，我们意识到我们已经变成了别人的导师，在这个过程中，我们已经开始创造我们自己个性化的导师应该是什么。对我来说，这是一个反思的时间，因为我意识到导师在我自己的生活中扮演的角色，以及我欠他们的巨大债务。因此，在思考我可能与他人分享的关于指导的想法时，我自然会回顾过去，而不是向前看，在我开始成为他人导师的过程中，我从导师那里得到了重要的经验教训。
No one gets there alone. Virtually everyone has been mentored, either formally or informally. Some mentors have been have been outstanding, others have been good, a few have been awful, and a couple have been downright crushing to the soul and spirit. With all of that positive and negative personal experience gained while interacting with our own mentors, it becomes fairly easy to begin to develop one’s own individual view of what makes a truly great mentor, as well as some ideas of how to emulate them. We start by identifying the best of a mentor’s styles and characteristics, and add them to what we appreciate in other mentors. As we take on the form and substance of our mentors, we begin to develop our very own mentoring style. Through trial and error, we test, adapt, practice, and use our acquired mentoring skills.Eventually, we realize that we have moved into the role of mentor to others and along the way, we have begun creating our own personalized version of what a mentor should be. For me, it became a time of reflecting backwards as I realized the roles mentors have played in my own life and the great debt I owe them. So in thinking about what thoughts I might share with others about mentoring, I naturally looked backwards more than forwards, to the important lessons I received from my mentors as I began my own progression to becoming a mentor to others.