Review of Can Love Last? The Fate of Romance Over Time.
Review of Can Love Last? The Fate of Romance Over Time.
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评论《爱情能长久吗？》
DOI：
10.1037/0736-9735.20.2.395
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2002
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S. Mitchell
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普遍的看法是，爱情是脆弱的，但领先的精神分析学家斯蒂芬A。米切尔认为，在长期关系中，浪漫并没有减少，反而变得越来越危险。我们所认为的爱的短暂性实际上是风险管理。米切尔表明，爱可以持久，只要我们意识到我们的自我毁灭的努力，以保护自己免受其风险。“读这本书的人会因为它而更明智地去爱。“-安德鲁所罗门，《正午的恶魔》的作者，这是一部丰富而多层次的浪漫小说。“--《出版商周刊》“开朗、坦率、有人情味--你肯定会想让他做你的分析师。- -朱迪思·舒莱维茨，《纽约书评》[T]富有同情心，富有同情心，非常乐观。“--乔安·古廷，Salon.com
Common wisdom has it that love is fragile, but leading psychoanalyst Stephen A. Mitchell argues that romance doesn't actually diminish in long-term relationships-it becomes increasingly dangerous. What we regard as the transience of love is really risk management. Mitchell shows that love can endure, if only we become aware of our self-destructive efforts to protect ourselves from its risks. "Those who read this book will love more wisely because of it."-Andrew Solomon, author of The Noonday Demon "[A] work on romance that is rich and multi-layered."-Publishers Weekly "Cheerful, open, and humane-you'd definitely have wanted him as your analyst."-Judith Shulevitz, The New York Times Book Review "[T]houghtful, compassionate, and profoundly optimistic."-JoAnn Gutin, Salon.com