To know you is to love you: The implications of global adoration and specific accuracy for marital relationships
To know you is to love you: The implications of global adoration and specific accuracy for marital relationships
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DOI：
10.1037/0022-3514.88.3.480
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发表时间：
2005-03-01
影响因子：
7.6
通讯作者：
Karney, BR
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作者：
Neff, LA;Karney, BR
尽管新婚夫妇有着强烈的积极情感，但许多婚姻都以失望告终。为了理解这种转变，作者认为，尽管新婚夫妇对整体关系的评价可能都是积极的，但并不是所有的配偶都是基于对伴侣特定品质的准确感知来进行整体崇拜的。两项纵向研究证实，虽然大多数新婚夫妇在他们的整体观念水平上增强了他们的伴侣，但配偶在他们对伴侣具体品质的看法上存在显着差异。对于妻子，而不是丈夫，更准确的具体感知与他们的支持行为，婚姻中的控制感，以及婚姻是否以离婚告终有关。因此，建立在特定准确性基础上的爱似乎比缺乏准确性的爱更强大。
Despite the strong positive feelings that characterize newlyweds, many marriages end in disappointment. To understand this shift, the authors argue that although newlyweds' global relationship evaluations may be uniformly positive, not all spouses base their global adoration on an accurate perception of their partner's specific qualities. Two longitudinal studies confirmed that whereas most newlyweds enhanced their partners at the level of their global perceptions, spouses varied significantly in their perceptions of their partners' specific qualities. For wives, but not for husbands, more accurate specific perceptions were associated with their supportive behaviors, feelings of control in the marriage, and whether or not the marriage ended in divorce. Thus, love grounded in specific accuracy appears to be stronger than love absent accuracy.