Emotional trade-offs of becoming a parent: how social roles influence self-discrepancy effects.
Emotional trade-offs of becoming a parent: how social roles influence self-discrepancy effects.
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成为父母的情感权衡：社会角色如何影响自我差异效应。
DOI：
10.1037//0022-3514.65.6.1259
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发表时间：
1993
影响因子：
7.6
通讯作者：
Higgins,ET
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作者：
Alexander,MJ;Higgins,ET
为什么有些人会为为人父母而苦恼，而另一些人则不然呢？新父母的实际自我与他们对自己的希望(理想自我)和配偶的责任感(应该自我)有关。出生前的实际-理想差异预示着出生后悲伤或沮丧的增加(特别是对于婚姻时间较长的夫妇)，而出生前的实际-应该的差异预测出生后紧张或焦虑的减少(特别是对于母亲和有不那么容易生的孩子的夫妇)。为人父母带来了新的要求，既干扰了实现自己的希望(增加了父母在理想[自己]差异中的沮丧)，也将注意力转移到了新的育儿角色上(减少父母在应该[配偶]差异中的焦虑)。(心理信息数据库记录(C)2016 APA，保留所有权利)
Why do some people suffer from becoming a parent, whereas others do not? New parents' actual selves were related to their own hopes for themselves (ideal self) and to their spouse's sense of their responsibilities (ought self). Prebirth actual–ideal discrepancies predicted increased sadness or dejection after birth (especially for couples in longer marriages), whereas prebirth actual–ought discrepancies predicted decreased nervousness or agitation after birth (especially for mothers and couples with a less" easy" child). Becoming a parent introduces new demands that both interfere with attaining one's own hopes (increasing dejection in parents high in ideal [own] discrepancy) and shift attention to the new parenting role (decreasing agitation in parents high in ought [spouse] discrepancy).(PsycINFO Database Record (c) 2016 APA, all rights reserved)