Whose Orgasm is this Anyway? ‘Sex Work’ in Long-term Heterosexual Couple Relationships
Whose Orgasm is this Anyway? ‘Sex Work’ in Long-term Heterosexual Couple Relationships
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长期异性伴侣关系中的“性工作”到底是谁的？
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1996
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通讯作者：
D. Marsden
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作者：
J. Duncombe;D. Marsden
异性恋夫妇关系越来越不稳定，其深刻根源在于社会经济变革。然而，这也源于媒体越来越强调“纯粹的关系”是情感和性满足的最终来源：根据吉登斯的说法，来自女性的“亲密关系的转变”压力与男性的主导性和对亲密情感的恐惧相冲突（吉登斯，1992）;鲁宾发现了通过另一个人寻求自我实现的深刻矛盾：
[媒体形象]给我们留下了一套对人际关系可能性的高度期望，这种期望与幻灭并存，对许多人来说，这种幻灭近乎绝望。（Rubin，1991，第160页）
The growing instability of heterosexual couple relationships has deep roots in socio-economic change. Yet it also stems from the increased media emphasis on ‘the pure relationship’ as the ultimate source of emotional and sexual fulfilment: according to Giddens, pressures from women for ‘the transformation of intimacy’ clash with men’s dominative sexuality and fear of intimate emotion (Giddens, 1992); and Rubin identifies deep contradictions in the search for self-fulfilment through another person:
we are left [by media images] with an extraordinarily heightened set of expectations about the possibilities in human relationships that lives side by side with disillusion that, for many, borders on despair. (Rubin, 1991, p. 160)