The Perils of Love, or Why Wives Adapt to Husbands during the Transition to Parenthood.
The Perils of Love, or Why Wives Adapt to Husbands during the Transition to Parenthood.
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爱情的危险，或者为什么妻子在为人父母的过渡期间要适应丈夫。
DOI：
10.2307/353451
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发表时间：
1998
影响因子：
6
通讯作者：
T. Huston
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文献类型：
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作者：
Elizabeth M. Johnson;T. Huston
在相互依存和女性化的爱的理论框架内，我们提出的证据表明，妻子对丈夫的爱促使他们调整自己的喜好的分工育儿任务与丈夫的喜好在过渡到为人父母。研究人员在69对夫妇结婚两个月后和第一个孩子出生两年后对他们的偏好进行了测量。分层线性回归的结果表明，丈夫的新婚偏好预测妻子的偏好变化，丈夫的偏好的影响取决于妻子的爱的水平。关键词。态度改变，分娩，相互依赖，爱情，婚姻影响，向父母身份过渡。过渡到为人父母的夫妇面临着新的要求，这些要求挑战了规范他们日常活动的规范。基于文化的关于丈夫和妻子角色的假设认为，妇女负有维持婚姻情感幸福的主要责任，这表明，妻子将带头解决有关育儿任务分工的潜在冲突。本研究探讨了在向为人父母的转变过程中，爱如何影响妻子对丈夫育儿责任的态度。妻子情感责任的起源可以追溯到19世纪初现代家庭的出现。在殖民地时期的美国，婚姻创造了一个家庭，在这个家庭中，协调一致的行动不仅产生了爱，还产生了牛奶、肥皂和衣服。坎西安（1987）追随一些家庭历史学家（Degler，1980; Zaretsky，1986）的观点，描述了家庭意识形态的转变，这种转变始于世纪末，当时工业化将经济工作从家庭转移到工厂。男人在工作中遇到的艰难而客观的世界被女人在家里培养的爱和关怀所平衡。在19世纪，妇女与丈夫的关系具有双重性：妻子在情感上依赖丈夫，但她们主要是家庭内情感支持的提供者，而不是接受者（Degler，1980）。随着婚姻伴侣取代抚养孩子成为婚姻生活的焦点，丈夫转移到了妻子的中心，坎西安指出，"她的生活集中在从他那里得到正确的情感反应"（第37页）。在整个世纪，婚姻伴侣的中心地位和妻子作为情感专家的角色通常被视为许多家庭的特征（Cancian，1987; Degler，1980; Dandy & Gadlin，1990）。当代对婚姻伴侣关系的强调可能导致难以适应父母身份，因为伴侣活动的模式被婴儿的到来打乱（Dyer，1963）。20世纪50年代末和60年代初的研究将父母身份描述为夫妻的危机（Dyer，1963; LeMasters，1957）。最近的研究已经确定了为人父母的积极和消极方面，以及第一个孩子对婚姻关系的影响在夫妇之间的差异（Belsky和Kelly，1994年;科万和科万，1992年;休士顿和Vangelisti，1995年）。为人父母改变了夫妻之间的"生活空间"，并带来了一系列新的任务，需要夫妻之间的协调（Lewin，1948年）。Kelley对相互依赖的分析提供了一个框架，可以用来揭示个人的需求和能力之间的相互作用，以及他们协调父母责任的方式（Kelley，1979; 1983; Kelley & Thibaut，1978）。凯利认为，亲密关系中的伴侣是相互依赖的，因为他们控制着彼此的结果。一方的行动影响另一方的结果主要有两种方式。有时，配偶自己的行为的影响取决于伴侣的行为。…
Within a theoretical framework of interdependence and the feminization of love, we present evidence that wives' love for their husbands motivates them to align their preferences about the division of child-care tasks with their husbands' preferences during the transition to parenthood. The preferences of 69 couples were measured 2 months after they were wed and 2 years later, after the birth of their first child. Results of hierarchical linear regressions indicate that husbands' newlywed preferences predict changes in wives' preferences and that the influence of husbands' preferences depends on the level of wives' love. Key Words. attitude change, dil.rion of labor, interdependence, love, marital influence, transition to parenthood. Couples making the transition to parenthood are faced with new demands that challenge the norms that regulate their day-to-day activities. Culturally based assumptions about the roles of husbands and wives, which assign women the primary responsibility for maintaining the emotional wellbeing of the marriage, suggest that wives will take the lead in resolving potential conflicts about the division of child-care tasks. This study examines how love influences wives to adopt the attitudes of their husbands about child-care responsibilities during the transition to parenthood. The origins of wives' emotional responsibilities can be traced to the emergence of the modern family in the early l9th century. In colonial America, marriage created a household in which coordinated action produced not only love, but milk, soap, and clothes as well. Cancian (1987), following the lead of a number of historians of the family (Degler, 1980; Zaretsky, 1986), describes a shift in the ideology of family that began toward the end of the 18th century as industrialization moved economic work out of the home and into factories. The tough and impersonal world that men encountered at work was balanced by the love and caring that women cultivated at home. During the l9th century, women's relationships with their husbands had a dual character: Wives were emotionally dependent on their husbands, and yet they were primarily providers, rather than recipients, of emotional support within the family (Degler, 1980). As marital companionship replaced raising children as the focus of married life, the husband moved to the center of the wife's sphere, and, Cancian notes, "her life was focused on getting the right emotional response from him" (p. 37). The centrality of marital companionship and the role of the wife as emotion specialist are generally seen as characterizing many families throughout the 20th century (Cancian, 1987; Degler, 1980; Dizard & Gadlin, 1990). The contemporary emphasis on marital companionship can lead to difficulties adjusting to parenthood because patterns of companionate activity are disrupted by the arrival of a baby (Dyer, 1963). Research in the late 1950s and early 1960s characterized parenthood as a crisis for couples (Dyer, 1963; LeMasters, 1957). More recent research has identified both positive and negative aspects of parenthood, as well as variation among couples in the effects of a first child on the marital relationship (Belsky & Kelly, 1994; Cowan & Cowan,1992; Huston & Vangelisti, 1995). Parenthood changes the "life space" within which couples function and brings with it a new set of tasks that require coordination between the spouses (Lewin, 1948). Kelley's analysis of interdependence provides a framework that can be used to lay bare the interplay between individuals' needs and abilities in relation to the ways they coordinate their parental responsibilities (Kelley, 1979; 1983; Kelley & Thibaut, 1978). According to Kelley, partners in a close relationship are interdependent because they control each other's outcomes. There are two primary ways in which the actions of one affect the outcomes of the other. At times, the effects of a spouse's own actions are contingent on the actions of the partner. …
已婚夫妇的因果归因：他们什么时候寻找原因？
影响因子：
7.6
作者：
Holtzworth-Munroe,A;Jacobson,NS
通讯作者：
Jacobson,NS
影响因子：
7.6
作者：
KIRKPATRICK, LA;DAVIS, KE
通讯作者：
DAVIS, KE
第一次母亲过渡期间婚姻关系的变化：违反家庭劳动分工期望的影响。
影响因子：
7.6
作者：
Ruble,DN;Fleming,AS;Hackel,LS;Stangor,C
通讯作者：
Stangor,C