Perceived regard and relationship resilience

感知尊重和关系弹性

• 批准号: 7385952
• 负责人: Sandra L. Murray
• 金额: $ 32.73万
• 依托单位: STATE UNIVERSITY OF NEW YORK AT BUFFALO
• 依托单位国家: 美国
• 财政年份: 1999
• 资助国家: 美国
• 起止时间: 1999-09-01 至 2010-03-31
• 项目状态: 已结题
• 来源: https://reporter.nih.gov/project-details/7385952
• 关键词: Acute; Adopted; Affect; Affective; Anxiety; Attention; Behavior; Behavioral; Belief; Caring; Chronic; Clinical; Cognitive; Conflict (Psychology); Couples; Daily; Development; Diagnostic; Electronics; Evaluation; Event; Feeling; Fostering; Goals; Human; Individual; Intervention; Learning; Life; Light; Link; Love; Marital Relationships; Marriage; Measures; Modeling; Motivation; Neurotic Disorders; Outcome; Pattern; Perception; Personal Satisfaction; Personality; Persons; Process; Psyche structure; Reaction; Reading; Regulation; Research; Research Personnel; Resources; Rest; Risk; Rosa; Safety; Satiation; Security; Shapes; Sting Injury; Stress; Thinking; Time; base; day; design; diaries; expectation; experience; impression; indexing; insight; member; pleasure; resilience; response; satisfaction; self esteem; stressor; trait; willingness

DESCRIPTION (provided by applicant): To satisfy felt security goals in a specific relationship, people need to believe that their partner sees qualities in them that merit attention, nurturance, and care. However, people troubled by dispositional insecurities, such as low self-esteem or attachment-related anxiety, underestimate how positively their partner sees them on specific traits and even underestimate how much their partner loves them. This proposal examines how the resulting activation of felt security needs affects newlyweds' capacity to engage in the affective, cognitive, and behavioral regulation strategies critical for continued marital satisfaction. First, the proposal examines how feeling more or less positively regarded affects people's day-to-day threshold for perceiving signs of acceptance or rejection in specific events (appraisal sensitivity), how day-to-day concerns about rejection affect people's self-esteem (self-esteem sensitivity), and how feeling more or less positively regarded affects the behavioral strategies (i.e., interdependence and accommodation regulation) people adopt to alleviate the sting of rejection on a day-to-day basis. Second, the proposal examines how and why these within-person signatures or response profiles change over time, and how they relate to long-term changes in people's impressions of themselves and others, and to the long-term well-being of their marriage. A longitudinal daily diary study of newlywed couples is planned. Both members of the couple will complete 14-day electronic diaries and relationship-functioning assessments for 4 consecutive years. The daily diaries will be designed to provide within-person measures of how much rejection is read into events, within person measures of how much perceived rejections threaten self-esteem, and within-person measures of how each person responds behaviorally to feeling rejected. These micro-process indices will then be used to predict the relationship trajectories couples take, toward increasing, stable, or decreasing individual and relationship well-being. Apart from shedding light on the dynamics of attachment and interdependence regulation, this research might also facilitate the development of clinical interventions, such as fostering insight into a partner's positive regard and unconditional acceptance that might circumvent harmful interaction patterns.

描述（由申请人提供）：为了满足特定关系中的安全感目标，人们需要相信他们的伴侣看到他们身上值得关注、培养和关心的品质。然而，受到性格不安全感困扰的人，例如低自尊或与依恋相关的焦虑，低估了伴侣对他们特定特征的积极看法，甚至低估了伴侣对他们的爱。该提案研究了由此产生的安全感需求的激活如何影响新婚夫妇参与对持续婚姻满意度至关重要的情感、认知和行为调节策略的能力。首先，该提案研究了感觉或多或少的积极评价如何影响人们在特定事件中感知接受或拒绝迹象的日常阈值（评价敏感性），日常对拒绝的担忧如何影响人们的自尊（自尊敏感性），以及感觉或多或少的积极评价如何影响人们采取的缓解行为策略（即相互依赖和适应调节）。 每天都会遭受拒绝的刺痛。其次，该提案探讨了如何以及为何 这些个人特征或反应概况会随着时间的推移而变化，以及它们与人们对自己和他人的印象的长期变化以及婚姻的长期福祉的关系。 计划对新婚夫妇进行纵向每日日记研究。夫妻俩将连续 4 年完成为期 14 天的电子日记和关系功能评估。每日日记的设计目的是提供对事件中被拒绝的程度的个人衡量，对感知到的拒绝对自尊的威胁程度的个人衡量，以及每个人对被拒绝的感觉如何做出行为反应的个人衡量。然后，这些微观过程指数将用于预测夫妻关系的轨迹，以增加、稳定或减少个人和关系的幸福感。除了揭示依恋和相互依赖调节的动态之外，这项研究还可能促进临床干预措施的发展，例如促进对伴侣的积极关注和无条件接受的洞察，从而避免有害的互动模式。

项目成果

Fostering partner dependence as trust insurance: the implicit contingencies of the exchange script in close relationships.

培养合作伙伴依赖作为信任保险：亲密关系中交换脚本的隐含意外事件。

• DOI: 10.1037/a0012856
• 发表时间: 2009
• 期刊: Journal of personality and social psychology
• 影响因子: 7.6
• 作者: Murray,SandraL;Aloni,Maya;Holmes,JohnG;Derrick,JayeL;Stinson,DanuAnthony;Leder,Sadie
• 通讯作者: Leder,Sadie

Tempting fate or inviting happiness?: unrealistic idealization prevents the decline of marital satisfaction.

• DOI: 10.1177/0956797611403155
• 发表时间: 2011-05
• 期刊: Psychological science
• 影响因子: 8.2
• 作者: Murray SL;Griffin DW;Derrick JL;Harris B;Aloni M;Leder S
• 通讯作者: Leder S

The social-safety system: Fortifying relationships in the face of the unforeseeable.

• DOI: 10.1037/pspi0000245
• 发表时间: 2021-01
• 期刊: Journal of personality and social psychology
• 影响因子: 7.6
• 作者: Murray SL;Lamarche V;Seery MD;Jung HY;Griffin DW;Brinkman C
• 通讯作者: Brinkman C

When rejection stings: how self-esteem constrains relationship-enhancement processes.

当拒绝刺痛时：自尊如何限制关系增强过程。

• DOI: 10.1037//0022-3514.83.3.556
• 发表时间: 2002
• 期刊: Journal of personality and social psychology
• 影响因子: 7.6
• 作者: Murray,SandraL;Rose,Paul;Bellavia,GinaM;Holmes,JohnG;Kusche,AnnaGarrett
• 通讯作者: Kusche,AnnaGarrett

Putting the partner within reach: a dyadic perspective on felt security in close relationships.

让伴侣触手可及：从二元视角看待亲密关系中的安全感。

• DOI: 10.1037/0022-3514.88.2.327
• 发表时间: 2005
• 期刊: Journal of personality and social psychology
• 影响因子: 7.6
• 作者: Murray,SandraL;Rose,Paul;Holmes,JohnG;Derrick,Jaye;Podchaski,EricJ;Bellavia,Gina;Griffin,DaleW
• 通讯作者: Griffin,DaleW