Research of love relationship of spouses in the society of rapi

拉比社会中夫妻爱情关系研究

• 批准号: 15330096
• 负责人: YAMADA Masahiro
• 金额: $ 7.55万
• 依托单位: Tokyo Gakugei University
• 依托单位国家: 日本
• 项目类别: Grant-in-Aid for Scientific Research (B)
• 财政年份: 2003
• 资助国家: 日本
• 起止时间: 2003 至 2005
• 项目状态: 已结题
• 来源: https://kaken.nii.ac.jp/grant/KAKENHI-PROJECT-15330096/
• 关键词: spouse relationship; love; romantic love; divorce; love affair; sexless couples; communication; family problem; 恋愛; 愛清; 家計破綻; 配偶者への期待; 妻とその親との関係; 夫の経済破綻; 後期親子関係; 夫婦の愛情; 夫婦のリスク化

To analyze the relationship of spouses in Japan, we did intensive surveys of divorced persons and did large scale survey in Tokyo and Osaka(we got about 1000samples)Main results of this research are below.1.Companionship behaviors of Japanese spouses are fewer than American spouses in general. But the few companionship behaviors and few sex relationships doesn't mean the deficit of intimacy between spouses in Japan. Confident and helpful relationship can be maintained even in the lack of companionship behaviors. Japanese spouses tend to express their love not by direct behaviors but other styles.2.There are divides between romantic love and intimate relationship of spouses. And there are gender differences about it Men tend to seek romantic love after marriage3.In the survey divorced persons tend to expect high levels of the spouse's love expressions than not divorced spouses or unmarried persons. And divorced women tend to attribute their reasons of divorce to husband's low income. So the recent instability of male's wage effects the increase of divorces in Japan.

为了分析日本的配偶关系，我们对离婚者进行了深入的调查，并在东京和大坂进行了大规模的调查（大约1000个样本）。本研究的主要结果如下：1.日本配偶的伴侣行为总体上少于美国配偶。但是，伴侣行为和性关系的减少并不意味着日本夫妻之间的亲密度不足。即使在缺乏陪伴的情况下，也能保持自信和乐于助人的关系。日本人的配偶倾向于用其他方式而不是直接的行为来表达他们的爱。2.浪漫的爱情和配偶的亲密关系是有区别的。男性更倾向于在婚后寻求浪漫的爱情。3.在调查中，离婚者比未婚者和未离婚者更倾向于期望配偶表达更高的爱。离婚女性倾向于将离婚原因归结为丈夫的低收入。因此，最近男性工资的不稳定影响了日本离婚率的上升。