Research on the intimacy of couples

为了掌握夫妻情感关系的结构，笔者对夫妻进行了访谈调查和问卷调查，结果如下：1）夫妻对情感关系的两个方面的认知。一方面是亲密，另一方面是浪漫。这两个方面是男人和女人不同的。男人倾向于将性内容和亲密联系起来。女性倾向于将性内容与浪漫联系在一起; 3）对配偶的期望是线性的; 4）为了保持亲密关系，亲密行为频繁发生; 5）在情感工作方面，农村与城市、性别之间存在差异。农村女性比男性更倾向于做情感工作，而城市男性比女性更倾向于做情感工作。6）在配偶情感关系满意度方面，女性对浪漫关系的满意度较低，但对亲密关系的满意度较高。

I did the interview survey and question survey of couples in order to grasp the structure of emotional relationship of spouses.The results are below :1) Couples recognize two aspect of emotional relationship. One aspect its intimacy, and another one is Romance.2) These two aspect are different between men and women. Men tend to connect sexual content and intimacy. The other hand, women tend to connect sexual content and romance.3) Expectations toward spouse are lineal.4) In order to keep intimacy, the intimate behavior are frequently done.5) About emotion work, there are differences between the rural area and the city area, and sexes. In the rural area women tend to do more emotion works than men, but in the city area men tend to do more emotion works than women.6) About the contentment of spouse's emotional relationship, women are less contended with romance relationship even though they are contended at the point of intimacy.