Research of love relationship of spouses in the society of rapi

为了分析日本的配偶关系，我们对离婚人士进行了密集的调查，并在东京和大阪进行了大规模的调查（我们得到了大约1000个样本）。日本配偶的陪伴行为总体上少于美国配偶。但日本人很少有陪伴行为和性生活，这并不意味着夫妻之间缺乏亲密关系。即使在缺乏陪伴行为的情况下，也能保持自信和乐于助人的关系。日本的配偶倾向于用其他方式而不是直接的行为来表达爱意。浪漫的爱情和亲密的夫妻关系是有区别的。男性在婚后更倾向于追求浪漫的爱情。在调查中，离婚的人比未离婚的人或未婚的人更期望配偶表达更多的爱。离婚女性倾向于将离婚的原因归结为丈夫收入低。因此，最近男性工资的不稳定影响了日本离婚率的上升。

To analyze the relationship of spouses in Japan, we did intensive surveys of divorced persons and did large scale survey in Tokyo and Osaka(we got about 1000samples)Main results of this research are below.1.Companionship behaviors of Japanese spouses are fewer than American spouses in general. But the few companionship behaviors and few sex relationships doesn't mean the deficit of intimacy between spouses in Japan. Confident and helpful relationship can be maintained even in the lack of companionship behaviors. Japanese spouses tend to express their love not by direct behaviors but other styles.2.There are divides between romantic love and intimate relationship of spouses. And there are gender differences about it Men tend to seek romantic love after marriage3.In the survey divorced persons tend to expect high levels of the spouse's love expressions than not divorced spouses or unmarried persons. And divorced women tend to attribute their reasons of divorce to husband's low income. So the recent instability of male's wage effects the increase of divorces in Japan.